On my latest Cap Ltd trip, June 15, I took an adult and a 2-year-old so we booked a family room (first time). We liked the family room very much, and once we looked around we went right to breakfast. As we waited for our food, our 2-year-old ate a packet of sweetener and a pat of butter. I thought the dining attendant was going to have a fit. She asked me why I let him do that, why didn't I stop him, he would get coronary trouble and be fat in later life, etc. I tried to make light of the situation and told her as long as he was willing to sit quietly and not bother other diners, I'd probably let him chew the paper napkins as well. She actually moved the bowl of butter pats off the table (and I moved it right back; he only ever eats one for crying out loud). After I thought about it later, I got pretty upset that she would stick her nose in and get so loud. I guess if he'd have been chewing a big old frosted jelly donut instead, that would have been fine. Anyway, I know that in the grand scheme of life this is not a big deal, but I'm still upset and wondering if I did something wrong.